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Amber Adrian's avatar

Absolutely have noticed this as well w regard to motherhood-related things specifically. Really frustrating and feels very anti-woman😔

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Dominika's avatar

"mimetic desire doom loops" is the most perfectly turned phrase 👌🏻 Also, your list of tips is excellent. I had to get off Instagram. It frankly felt diabolical to me. Immediately after logging on I'd become dissociated with the real, tangible goodness in my life and I'd start hungering for an illusion. The worst envy and resentment I experienced was always directed towards wealthy Catholic influencers. Their advice was often good and well-intended but when they're giving prayer tips accompanied by a picture of them wearing a $200 dress, well it plays upon my insecurities terribly and stirs up all kinds of uncharitable thoughts. My psyche is so much better when I stay off social media and go to those who have eschewed wealth and notoriety (like the desert fathers and mothers) for spiritual advice.

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